I’ve had the most stressful couple of weeks I’ve endured in a long time and it’s reminded me how much I need to listen to others when they tell me to chill. It’s impossible to run at 100% the entire time and boy do I know the importance of listening to my mind and body now. I guess sometimes we just need to hit the pause button, take a step back and focus on number one and if you think that’s overdue, here are some of my favourite ways to relax and unwind.

[AD – PR Trip] A trip to the spa always seems like such a treat doesn’t it? But it really is the one stop shop to a day of total relaxation and an opportunity for your brain to switch off. I was lucky enough to be invited to Bridgewood Manor Hotel and Spa near Chatham a few weeks ago and I cannot stress how much it came at the right time. A massage*, dip in the pool, lounge on the heated beds and afternoon tea was just what the doctor ordered! It’s definitely made me realise how much a spa day can help you forget about all the stresses and worries ofย everyday life.
* I can’t recommend the Revitalising Ritual enough. My masseuse was Bobby who was so lovely and if I could afford a body scrub and back massage from her every week, I would!
The next best option if a spa day isn’t on the cards is to run yourself a nice, hot, bubble bath. I’ve always been more of a shower gal but if everything is going tits up around me, the first thing I do is turn that hot water tap on, scrape my hair up and get ready for an hour long session of watching trash TV in the bath. I swear it’s one of the best ways to relax! Make sure you’ve always got some relaxing bubble bath, a shit load of candles and a big glass of water (or wine) on hand and you’re good to go. Cue relaxation.
The last few weeks have truly shown me how time-consuming and stress-inducing technology and social media can be. Putting your phone down even for an hour can make you appreciate the smaller things in life which don’t come in the form of likes or WhatsApp notifications.
Sometimes a run on the treadmill is the absolute last thing I want to do when I’m stressed but it’s amazing what physical activity can do. Whether it’s half an hour of yoga, an intense HIIT workout at home or even just taking the dog for a walk, it can totally clear your mind and enable you to reset so you can either focus on something different or carry on unwinding and switching off.
Okay I’ll be honest in saying that colouring is an activity I judged a few years ago when it started getting hyped up but I totally get it now. There’s something so therapeutic about it and if you don’t want to spend the money on a whole book, there are tonnes of printable pages on Pinterest.
One of the simplest ways of relaxing is to pop the kettle on and pour yourself a nice cuppa. How typically British! Although I must put my hands up and say I don’t actually drink hot drinks so I feel like a fraud typing this BUT I’ve heard so much over the years about the healing properties of an English breakfast tea (or whatever brew you fancy).
What do you find the most helpful ways to relax and unwind?
19 Comments
I love a spa day and I’m so glad you enjoyed yours!! These are some great tips to relax – I’ve learnt how important that is in recent years xx
Yeah we all definitely need to take a break sometimes!
Having a cup of tea is so simple yet it soothes me so much! The spa sounds great ๐ xx
It’s the little things isn’t it ๐ x
Taking a break from your phone is a must! When I’m surrounded by my family I leave my phone in another room, as I know there’s unlikely to be any emergencies or someone that needs to contact me! Otherwise, I’m trying to reduce use on unproductive apps. Thanks for sharing x
That is SO true! I just love a digital detox these days!
Simple comforts. Enjoyed reading it. Well reading and writing kinda helps me feel relaxed.
It’s amazing what the simple things can do for our minds!
I recently went to Centre Parcs and it was one of the best things I could have done this year. Getting away, relaxing and even doing some exercise in the forest was so soothing and has helped me get my mojo back. Thank you for these tips, your getaway sounds lovely! Em x
Oh my god yesss love Centre Parcs so much!
Great post. Having a break from my phone is an instant rest. In January, I decided to swap endless scrolling with reading – even just a few pages. And it’s made a MASSIVE difference in such a positive way!
Rosie
That is such a great idea! In fact, I’m going to try and do the same ๐
A cuppa is my go-to little moment of rest and I love that you’ve included it here, it deserves recognition, haha! I don’t often take baths (I tend to always hop in the shower) but I think I should actually make it a regular weekly thing to help me unwind. This was a lovely reminder of the things I can do to help me relax (been hard lately) — thank you!
Your trip to the spa sounds wonderful and perfectly timed – I’m glad it helped with relaxing! I’m a bath person so that’s my go to with a magazine and some candles. Putting my phone on silent for a day is also a powerful way to unwind as well! Thanks for sharing these great tips.
I love colouring! Colouring is so therapeutic for me!
Fab tips! I find taking a bath after a really long day can be really relaxing, and I really want to get into exercising more regularly – I feel like it would definitely help me destress a lot! Thanks for sharing x
I love these ways to relax and unwind Katy! I had a spa day recently and it did me the world of good having that little pamper! x
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I am ready for a good relax sometime soon!
Danielle | thereluctantblogger.co.uk
These are all such great suggestions! I love spa days – they feel like a mental reset! x
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